on being a guest....

Last April 28th i started this blog.... that blog was very short and sweet ... it said only:
i am a collared submissive living somewhere in the great white north. i do not live 24/7 with my Sir .. life commitments for both us force us to spend only weekends together. BUT we both try our best to live 24/7 despite being apart Monday to Thursday. These writings will be my thoughts/feelings and struggles both in the lifestyle and out of it.

At that time i didn't even know if anyone would stumble across my ramblings and read them.... or if - having read them - they would ever return. i was a real novice at blogging.. at html .. but over the months i learned to add a link section.. add links within my blog... add pictures where i want them... add a counter......... and i have discovered lots of really friendly folk who DO indeed visit this little blog.. who suffer through my whines.. my pity parties and my glorious triumphs.......and have left comments that encourage me to think...... or just make me laugh......

Entering the holidailies i realized was opening myself up to a whole crowd of unknown visitors who might just take exception to what i write.. to what i do.. to what i crave and need........rude guests...... i realized this blog might just shock a few people and send them running screaming.... but i did it anyway..........

i have been very pleased with the quality of "guests" who have stopped by to read my ramblings....... oh there have been a few who have snuck in like a thief in the night and stolen my words..... but they did it quietly without much fanfare or disruption.. and so i continue writing............

Before the holidailies go on much longer.. i thought i should take one blog to outline clearly what is going to happen here...... so that the new guests may be forewarned and forearmed so to speak....

This blog is about BDSM - bondage discipline sadism and masochism.... my Sir is the Sadist and i am the masochist - which when you think about it is a good fit ! Everything is safe sane and consentual - by our standards not the vanilla worlds... i was not abused as a child and i am not a doormat .. i only answer to one Master - my Sir. In the outside world i am a strong independent woman who works with children..... owns a side business or two...... and has learned to take care of herself..... so please don't see me as some mealy mouthed weak female just because i am submissive........

There are number of areas that Sir and i enjoy .. Domination and submission being the foundation on which our relationship is built......... and then there is the pain aspect - everything from floggings to bondage to needles and knife play.

This is what The Journey is about........... mostly.....and why it is rated "Adult content"... you are most welcome to stop by regularily and read........ or quietly slip out the back door... (and yeah i know .. this probably should have been my FIRST entry but it wasn't.. )

And having said all that.. it is FRIDAY!! My Sir arrives this afternoon.. and He has been hinting at some fun times this weekend........... i have butterflies just thinking about what could happen....... TGIF!