Sunday, June 13, 2021
Saturday, June 12, 2021
Friday, June 11, 2021
We've had an amazing 2 weeks with the lil one and home schooling - AND attitude! even the teacher has noticed how animated she has been. I have my suspicions as to what brought on this change..... first I told her come hell or high water she's going back to school in September... and I told her that there was 3 weeks left of school... shrug... don't know what prompted this change - don't much care to be honest... it's just really good to have OUR lil one back!
Sir Steve and I have been talking about how to acknowledge this positive change - and we decided that perhaps a trip to Dairy Queen after dinner would be fun!
Dairy Queen for those of you who may not know (not sure if it is a brand name known anywhere other than here in Canada/US) is an ice cream shop. Last June the lil one received a gift certificate for Dairy Queen as part of a reward for outstanding work from school.
SO last night after dinner Sir Steve asked if she would like to take a trip to Dairy Queen for dessert. Of course he didn't have to ask twice! Excitement ruled the day! (He did make a point of saying we were going cause she had been working hard and not giving anyone attitude)
She proudly brought her gift certificate and with her dad's help decided on a small ice cream cone. THEN the chap behind the counter asked if she wanted a "DIP" she looked like a deer caught in the headlights! and said "no". I was shocked..... no chocolate dip?? I thought all kids loved chocolate dip! Then he listed the flavours of dip - chocolate ... blah blah... blah blah.... candy cotton! I stopped him there - cause ya know it's candy cotton!! The lil one still looked overwhelmed. I suggested she take a candy cotton dipped cone - and promised her she wouldn't be disappointed. While her cone was being made she presented her gift certificate - AND surprise surprise! it came back with enough money still on it for another cone!! Excitement reigned!
This is exactly what it looked like.......................
Personally I'm not sure I would be tempted by a BLUE ice cream cone - but hey I'm not 8 anymore!
We sat outside by ourselves and enjoyed our ice cream - and announced it really truly was summer now!
Wednesday, June 09, 2021
Yesterday I commented on Prefectdt's blog - he had a couple of videos and one involved fire play. He replied to me saying he didn't know fire play was a 'thing' - thought it was only used for stage shows.
Boy was he wrong! In my very active days in the BDSM scene - I saw more than one scene involving fire play.... even sat in on a couple of fire play workshops. It intrigued me - I could imagine the heat - the thrill - it really got my adrenaline pumping. Unfortunately though I couldn't try it as I am allergic to alcohol and they use alcohol to create the fire.
Fire Play is considered 'edge play' - along with knife play - electric play - breath play - blood play. Not as many people indulge in these activities as they do in whips and floggers and paddles..... for obvious reasons.
I loved watching it - it reminded me of a dance - a graceful albeit dangerous dance between the two partners. It requires a lot of practice and knowledge and trust - with a capital T.
I attended a play party in our Nation's capital a few years ago. There was a married couple who indulged in a lot of edge play... and this evening they were going to do a fire play scene. I had seen them do it before many times... it was beautiful to watch. There was no wiggling - or crying - or struggle. I made sure I had a front row seat (so to speak) when they started. She was lying naked on her back. He lined up the tools of the trade... including a BIG blanket and water.
It started off slowly - with him creating fire that travelled up her body - from her legs to her breasts. As the fire spread upwards - his hand would follow closely behind putting it out. At first it was slow and methodical... and then it started to speed up ... the lights were down so everyone could appreciate the pretty flames licking at her body... the music was low so we could hear her moans of pleasure......
faster and faster they went........
we watched as his hand travelled up to her belly putting the flames out - or so he thought - except something went wrong and the flames came back over her lower belly - his hand and eyes were on her breasts - it took a few seconds before she screamed...... loud blood curdling screams. His head turned and he saw the flames burning her belly and pink girly bits. He grabbed the towel and threw it over her body - laying his body over top of the towel smothering the flames. When he was sure it was out - he picked her up and carried her to a couch - medical aid was performed. She was ok.
Removed video because I felt uncomfortable with it
Truth - I actually believed today was Thursday..........
am getting a little too excited to go shopping on Friday - all our retail stores will be open on Friday - with limited numbers of course - but still O P E N !! I realized I have been missing access to our Dollar stores (for those of you who may not know what a dollar store is - everything is about 1$ - or 2$ - or 3$) and my absolute favourite place to shop for art supplies for the lil one - and summer toys and games. FRIDAY!! can't come soon enough.
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