Well Spring break ended with a whimper........ whatever 'celebration' I had hoped for to end the break didn't happen.......... On Saturday I was still just a little bit off kilter ... by Sunday my libido had resurrected itself and I was feeling feisty and ready to rock and roll.......... Unfortunately Sir Steve came down with a migraine.............. so spring break just kinda petered out
Good news though - Sir Steve did go through his clothes and managed to fill one bag for our "I give a Shirt" campaign. I think for him it was a little trip down memory lane cause OMG he found a shirt he had worn during his FIRST marriage !! (we won't talk about how long ago that was!!) On the plus side he found shirts he forgot he had and even found a brand new pair of jeans that he's never worn cause they need to be hemmed!! (shades of my finding the white pants in the back of my closet!)
Even though we didn't have 'adult time' this weekend - we did have a great one..... we watched a couple of good movies... we talked a lot about nothing in particular and about everything ..... and we laughed.... I never realized how little I laughed in past relationships (spontaneous laughter)... it feels so good to laugh till your belly aches....
I would love some feed back on something..........
I told you all how we have started to have 'THE TALK' with the lil one. Sir Steve and I discussed getting her 'training bras'. I suggested we ask her IF she wanted one - cause ya know maybe she doesn't want one.
So we asked - and she said YES! though I am wondering if that yes was because it's some sort of 'badge of honour'? I'm wondering if she will wear it for a day and then strip it off.
I wonder if it's OUR need to see her fully covered? (for lack of a better term) I find myself wondering why we feel the need to plunk them into bras - to shape and form and maybe kind of hide them? Are we sexualizing breasts?? on an 8 year old??!!
AND I'm shocking myself - cause when my girls were ready for bras trust me they got them and they wore them! (stern mother look)
Anyway - we did get some 'training bras' for her
and I'm in the process of washing them this morning.
So tell me - what are your thoughts on 'training bras'????