Thank you Oprah!

 

On Friday I posted "It's Friday" ... what you might have missed though was the declaration by Windy in the comments "Is Oprah visiting blog land or something?"
(I know it made me laugh) 

Well I am here to say....... "I did get one" !!!   It was better than best! 

Let me explain ...... 

Sir Steve and I have been dealing with health issues over the last year.... the issues have kinda taken the shine off our adult time ya know?? worrying / stressing about health issues is not conducive to relaxed fun in the bedroom ya know??  And the longer it goes on the more stress develops..... more pressure - and then...... then you just get depressed about it .. and then you just don't wanna ........... know what I mean??
 

Well ................ a miracle happened this weekend........ we had a plan ........ could we do it?? would it work??? what if it didn't work???!!!!!  

First I had to change my 'role'?? not sure what to call it - but I had to participate more... 

At first it was tentative on both our parts - don't forget I am still suffering with back /bum problems ...... and Sir Steve didn't want to aggravate the problem....... I was scared that my 'ministrations' wouldn't have the desired effect............ but it didn't take long at all for both of us to relax.. I was able to sorta bounce around the bed and be playful and just a little devilish.... soon we were laughing and relaxing......... and even sooner we were both responding

AND then....................

 

it was the BEST we've had in a long long time.......... with practice we'll both become more relaxed ... after all we're over the worst of the slumps ........ and in my opinion it can only get better from here.............

An added bonus was after....... we snuggled more ... we kissed more.. we groped ... we teased ... we laughed... it was amazing!!  better than multiple orgasms!  trust me !!!

Life is good when THE plan comes together