Monday, April 05, 2010

whip lash

Ok...... so has everyone got whip lash yet??

It's up's's up again.

Ok here's the scoop..........

i hate dramas....... so i took it down........

But then i realized most of the dramas were taking place in my comment section.......


from now on..... all comments will be moderated by me..

at least until i am sure everyone can play nice.

got it??


so let's get back to healing..........


  1. Anonymous5:27 pm

    I'm the nice Anonymous, I guess I'll call myself ~~A, since I've used that on swan's blog (I think) and I've read too many ugly things over the years from "anonymous"s to want the tag.

    Anyway, please don't post my comment if you think it would cause more trouble and I didn't read the comments here that caused the drama but honestly I don't understand why outsiders could possibly think a breakup is any of their business other than to give support to those involved.

    Or keep quiet if there is nothing constructive they can think of to say.

    Only the two people involved know what really happened in a failed relationship. When I separated from my ex-husband, I only told the intimate details to a trusted few. And I heard that he did the same. Because of that, there was a lot of conjecture from both "sides" about what really happened to cause me to leave.

    But only *he and I* know what really happened. Not even those closest to us whom we shared more details with truly know how things broke down between us.

    You two had a long relationship, 9 years. It's going to take a while to heal. In the meantime, I wish others would back off while you two try to heal.

    All good things to you both in your journey. I'm sorry you had to turn on comment moderation but I totally understand the need. It's just too bad it got to that.

  2. Nope. I don't get it.

  3. So you got another nasty comment?

  4. i'm so glad you've decided to keep blogging - there's lots of people, including me, who would miss you if you went!



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