I have been answering all the questions you folks have posed to me ...
BUT it's Sunday and time for Sunday Sentiments... I thought it was time to turn the tables a little bit and get you all to answer the following -- based on my blog "Words of Wisdom"
What words of wisdom do you have???
Love this Morningstar. My three would be consent, communication and control
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Roz
3 good ones Roz ! :) sort of the 'mantra' for all of us in TTWD :)
DeleteBe your best.
ReplyDeletenodding absolutely - all the time :)
DeleteWell I certainly hope you don't expect me to say only 3 words! LOL.
ReplyDelete* Explore. While reading and commenting and getting to know people of like thinking and dynamics brings comfort, getting to know people with more extreme dynamics ( as an example) will broaden your mind should you choose to allow it. From there can come great growth
* Of course never say never, because well that will just come back to bite you in the butt
*never comment when you are upset- too many misunderstandings can happen.
* blogs are only a snapshot of people's lives which they are willing to share- and also there are always 2 sides to every story ( sometimes the Dom isn't a jerk and sometimes it isn't always the sub's fault )
* don't get hung up on titles. If you believe you are NOT a sub/ slave/ Dom make sure you have a workable definition for those titles for your own sake
* there is no such thing as a 'natural' in the sense that NO ONE has it come that easily to them all the time. We all have to work at it, some just find it easier in certain areas than others...but trust me we all struggle
* Don't believe if your Dom or Sub were 'stronger' or more like... in their roles your life would be easier. (sort of goes with the above point). There are two sides of the slash that both have to work. Sometimes the side that has the need actually has to do the most amount of work
..and sadly
* While for some Dominance feeds submission and vice versa, that isn't ALWAYS the case. It is not the golden rule. It helps not having resistance but if someone doesn't feel it they don't feel it regardless of how submissive or dominant you are
Of course those are just some of my observations...can be taken anyway you like ;)
great words of wisdom willie - maybe I should have asked you (for question month) what words of wisdom you have - like Enzo asked me (le sigh - he never came back either - OR - he never commented on his question)
ReplyDeleteI honestly can't pick one of your points as the best or the most important - BUT - your one about not commenting if you're upset - I need to change upset for angry..... there are times........
Re Enzo...lol..sort if like a *person* wink who asked me a question on my blog which involved a several paragraph answer and she never came back. Lmao
Deletenever came back? or had nothing else to offer?
DeleteYOU ARE LOVED!
ReplyDeletePERFECT! absolutely perfect Fondles :)
DeleteFollow your dream
ReplyDeleteoh yes!!! love that one too !!
DeleteSo many great words of wisdom!
Morningstar,
ReplyDeleteSuch lovely ideas that everyone has shared. I don't really have words of wisdom. I don't know that I know anything.
But if I had one thing it would be...always ask the question, always seek the education. The worst thing that can happen in either case is you don't like the answer, but at least you know.
Hugs
Boo
SEE! you do have words of wisdom - love 'ask the question. seek the education' I love that !
ReplyDeletesorry can't keep it to 3 words either :)
ReplyDeleteyour going to make mistakes in life, it happens, you may even make the same mistake twice, it might be horrid, your going to hurt and at the worst think you can't do this! (whatever *this* might be) but you can, it will get better, it shall pass, don't go through it alone, ask for help there is no shame in that at all.
claire - excellent advise!! asking for help is a hard lesson learned :)
DeleteAlways good enough!
ReplyDeleteOH that is one I really do need to work on...believing I AM good enough
DeleteAlways be yourself.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
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So right ronnie - I read that and thought 'why would I want to be anyone else?' (feeling rather bratty today - grinning)
DeleteIn just 3 words!!! That's hard
ReplyDeleteNever give in
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