Ever since ronnie asked me about our TTWD I have been mulling over our relationship - especially the term submissive/submission.
I am drafting a blog on submission........ but I would really like some input. (really NEED some input?)
I have 2 quick questions to pose to you...... if you can find time over the holiday weekend to leave me your answers that would be wonderful............
1) what is the one thing you do that brings out the submissive mind set for you (and not cooking / cleaning etc - vanilla housewife stuff )
2) what is the one ritual/rule - thing you do - that you do NOT like but do because your dom/master (whatever you call the left side of the slash) asks you to....
I promise this will all make sense - at least that's my hope (cheeky grin)
Hi Morningstar,
ReplyDeleteWe don't have an active dynamic now but in answer to No1 there are a few things I did that put me in a very submissive minset. None of these were required, I did them on my own accord and even though we no longer have an active dynamic, I still do them:
- sitting at Rick's feet rather than next to him on the couch
- randomly grabbing his spanking hand and kissing it
- getting ready for bed and rather than just getting into bed walking round to his side of the bed and 'presenting' myself to him
In answer to question 2, we did maintenance spankings for a period of time and these included naked kneeling. I most definitely did not like it at the time. I was uncomfortable being naked then.
Will be interested to see what you do with the answers and hope this helps.
Hugs
Roz
thanks Roz ..... the whole naked thing gets me too.. more so a few years ago...
Deleteand (grinning) when I wrote this blog I had this whole process in my head - how it would help me sort out this TTWD thingy?? LOL Now I have no idea what I was thinking..I'm hoping it will come back to me LOL
BUT who knows it might spark a discussion here in the comment section - and that's not a bad thing either :)
Good morning!
ReplyDeleteAs you asked me the question to number one on my blog, I'll skip to number 2
On a shallow level I'd say asking to spend money ( oh Amazon how many issues you can cause). On another level I suppose the one I have the most challenge with is asking to leave a room. It's not so much that I don't like it, it just puts my mind/heart in a deeper place and I don't necessarily want to go there.
Good luck jogging your brain.
willie
1) Starting the day with kneeling at his feet and kissing them before moving to the shower where I wash him, and ending the day by kissing his feet and asking permission to enter his bed.
ReplyDelete2) Having to have an enema once a week, I'm sure there are some people out there that like and enjoy having a tube up their ass, and fair play to them, but I most definitely do not!
I'm looking forward to your post about this, I'm not that articulate in trying to convey my thoughts, when I did my post (which I must go reply to the comments on) I wasn't happy with how it read, but I do find it interesting to hear others opinions.
1) kissing his hand. or kneeling at his feet when he's sitting down
ReplyDelete2) when he asks me to be ready and "presenting" in bed before he arrives. I'm not a huge fan but i don't dislike it per se. He likes that I'm anticipating his arrival and that it gives me time to settle down, Cos I'm mostly a run-around till the last minute kinda person. Busy busy busy.
I wish I could add something here. I have nothing. But I'm really looking forward to reading your post.
ReplyDeletethat's ok Pk - folks may be a bit surprised when I finally pull this blog idea out of the air and put on 'paper' per say :)
Delete1. I agree with him, even when I don't, because he has told me never to argue with him.
ReplyDelete2. I can't think of anything right now, but maybe later.
Hugs,
Hermione
thanks for this Hermione - I was surprised to see you answering.. don't know why - but didn't expect one from you - thanks :)
Delete1) Find a strong-willed woman, with good aim and a no nonsense attitude :)
ReplyDelete2) Getting totally all over naked. Usually a demand from pro Dommes (as opposed to disciplinarians), even when no back play is involved
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