Confession.....

i have a confession ........ i am a blog-aholic......... i really am....besides writing a blog/journal nearly every day... i read on average 10 blogs a day...... and i read them in the order they are bookmarked.... and i have them catagorized .. the first set is "frequently read blogs" then comes "rarely updated blogs" then "infrequent blogs" and finally "vanilla blogs". Now i have NO idea how i came about naming the catagories of the blogs i read - well except for the obvious "vanilla blogs"....... but it made perfect sense to me when i originally set it up. And almost every day i pop into each site and check out what is happening........... and it isn't just a sneak attack - read and leave .. no no.. i often leave a little comment. (because i love receiving comments!!)

Originally i only bookmarked BDSM blogs written by submissives/slaves who actually sounded like they LIVED the lifestyle....... then slowly over time i have added more blogs that are written by the curious .. the professional (Dom not writer).. and even a few fantasy sites. i have had the pleasure of meeting one of the submissives i read regularily up here in the Great White North at the Midori Workshop.....domdra9on’s dungeon
My list of blogs is quite long .. and i have never updated the link list on here.. a task that IS on my "to do" list.. soon i promise !!!

And then .. one day.. i had a comment from "The Michael"... and i rather liked what He had to say........ out of curiousity i went and found his blog.....Madness Musings and Melancholy. i read bits and pieces of his blog and went WOW.. this man can write!!! Ya see in my humble opinion most men can't write... well not write and hold my attention. i discovered that The Michael had a sense of humour that usually came through in his writings.. and more times than not he made me laugh. And so a new catagory was added to my list.. "vanilla blogs".... and it comes at the end of a rather long reading list........ it is something like saving the "best for last".. because Michael views the world in a unique way..... and sometimes we all need to look at the world differently.

It was in the Madness Musings and Melancholy blog that i came to realize that our American friends are celebrating Thanksgiving this weekend..... and i realized with just a touch of sadness that blogs probably won't be updated too frequently for the next few days.. and my god my reading time will be cut drastically.. and ohhhhhhh my god.. i might actually get some tasks completed around here.. like Xmas cards made.... and Xmas lights put up.. and maybe even some decorations put out .... and oh yeah....... i might just get the list of blogs i read updated on here..........

And so dear friends - south of the border - enjoy your Thanksgiving....... and know i will be waiting for you all to return to your blogs .............