On the weekend - they went to see her aunt who lives in Montreal - a big hot spot for this pandemic. The very aunt who has only paid lip service to self isolating -- still going to her drug dealers - still smoking dope -- in fact on the 20th of April she went with friends to a park and smoked all day long. Yeah THAT aunt !!!
And the lil one hugged and kissed her and NO ONE stopped her.
In fact that aunt told her she couldn't tell anyone about seeing her -- or hugging her.. not even the police!
And now she is home with us...............
and this was quite literally the straw that broke this camel's back.
I cried...
I feel sick to my stomach....
I am desperately trying to calm the fuck down without much success
There is absolutely no "Life is good when" in me today............
Oh geez Morningstar, I'm so sorry. The mind truly boggles!
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Roz
I literally am speechless.. Quebec is the hardest hit province. I'm actually amazed they got away with it - I know three different people who were pulled over and were ticketed in Montreal. This is unbelievably irresponsible. Frankly, I think this is the tipping point. Your Sir needs to report the mother and her family (here in Ontario but to Montreal authorities as well). Sadly, he is going to have to forgo work according to provnincial mandates and self-isolate (all three of you) for 14 days. With this in mind, if it were me, I would make an emergency contact to the Courts to suspend that woman's visitation rights - I truly think there would be NO issue with having them removed at least while the pandemic is on. Unfortunately, that means no break for you, but perhaps the win would be not having to turn yourself into a stressful mess because you know the child will come back having been exposed to a ton of people?
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Morningstar,
ReplyDeleteOh god, I am so sorry. I don't think there is anything worse. First, what in god's name were they thinking and second, to keep a secret from everyone even the police? What the ever lasting F@#$?
Just keep breathing. It will work out. It will.
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Boo
I also agree with selkie. The irresponsibility of both aunt and the mom causes danger not only to the little one but also to you and SirSteve. If I were you, I would stop smoking now and take a lot of vitamin C, D and E. Please sleep well, eat well with no stress.
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