Tuesday, April 04, 2006

More the fool.......


i don't exactly remember where i learned the saying "more the fool" or even why i know it...... probably cause more than once in my life i have been a fool.. or been played for a fool.........

one of my great weaknesses is being naive.. and trusting... trusting to a fault. And i have learned the hard way that most people are not open and honest .... it is a difficult lesson for me to learn... and it would seem i am constantly having to relearn the lesson.

Anyone who reads my blog knows that i am an avid reader of blogs....... and god only knows why.... but i do tend to form attachments to these unknown writers out there in blogland. More the fool!!! i tend to write from the heart.... and anyone who knows me in the real world knows that i write who i am.. how i speak and how i feel..... and i tend to think / believe that others out there write the same way..... truth from the heart... More the fool !!!!

This morning early.. coffee in hand.. i loaded up the computer and sat down to read some blogs while i sipped my coffee. i opened up one of my favourite blogs to read that everything i have been enjoying for the last year or so has all been lies......

L I E S !

i sat there staring at the screen feeling very much like Alice through the Looking Glass.. not able to figure out what was truth and what was lies. i do NOT like being lied to. It tends to make me very cranky !!! i do not mind reading fiction when i know it is fiction....... especially if it is well written and catches and holds my attention.......... but do not feed me fiction disguised as truth.. that is just downright dishonest!!!

Another saying that has been whispering over and over in my mind today is:

"catch me once .. shame on you.. catch me twice shame on me" so i guess once again it is shame on me.......

6 comments:

  1. Anonymous9:29 pm

    oh no....:(

    *hugs* I hate when that happens and unfortunately I've had that happen to me a couple times over the years...

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  2. Anonymous10:09 pm

    damn...I just happened to find out who you are talking about...finally got to that blog on my list of favorite...

    damn...damn...damn...

    now the thing is, I know this is the internet...I *know* people lie...so why does it being her bother me *so* much...not who I would have suspected at all....

    sad. very sad. sorry to be ranting here in your space...just...wow...

    *hugs* to you morningstar

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  3. In her defense, i emailed her - i'm not so sure she's not just saying that to protect herself. i don't know but i was stunned too - just maybe, it's done in self-preservation...though, in my opinion, not the way to do it.
    It stinks though.

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  4. Sorry - wrote that before i read the newest post.

    Ok, so let's just go with saddened and stunned.

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  5. All you can do is take a person on their word if they are not truthfully it is not your fault. You at least have the ability to look in the mirror and say you were honest that is all what counts.

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  6. Anonymous4:22 am

    I know what you are referring to. I was absolutely speechless. I don't harbor any ill will, but I had been reading this blog for many months and all of a sudden the bottom just fell out. SQ

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