Q&A

 

 Ronnie of Heart and Soul asked about knife play...........

Question - You've probably answered this in one of your posts but can't remember reading about it. I was wondering how were you introduced to knife play.

 WOW great question ronnie!!  I had to think about that one....... there was a couple that used to do a lot of edge play at the clubs... needle play / knife play /cutting... I believe that was the first time I saw both needle play and knife play....... and it fascinated me.

Every summer for a number of years I went to a BDSM camp around Niagara Falls area. It was amazing as during the day there would be workshops on numerous kinky activities.  I remember attending workshops on whips and electric play and yes knife play.

The main problem with knife play was finding someone who enjoyed it as much as I do and had the skill to do it.  I discovered very early on that actual cutting with a knife was not for me ...... I never did have enough confidence in my partner to agree to actual cutting.  BUT there is a sensuousness about feeling the blade slide into all sorts of intimate areas..... and there is a sense of 'danger' involved that gets my adrenaline flowing - after all one small slip and it could turn nasty.

I have noticed though the older I get the thinner my skin gets.  Now when Sir Steve does knife play - there are always welts that take forever to heal - and when they heal they look like I have been 'cutting' .......... so knife play is not something we tend to do if I have a doctor appointment - or in the summer cause - more bare skin ya know?!

Thanks for the question Ronnie