Let's talk about........

In a D/s.. M/s... BDSM... relationship we have contracts, we have rules, we have protocols. i believe - NO i know - we need rules of engagement!!!

First let's define the term..........
"rules of engagement determine when, where, and how force shall be used."

Now this makes perfect sense........

So if i am curled up all snuggly and comfy ... it is not fair to "engage".

So if i am getting ready for a vanilla event - even if it is just mentally preparing myself - it is not fair to "engage" in any form of force..........

So if i am curled up in the living room - it is not fair to "engage" in a vanilla room

So if i am preparing to go out - it is not fair to "engage" when time is short.

AND for the most important part of "rules of engagement" .... the HOW.

It is not fair to "engage" in pinching or slapping or cropping or otherwise attacking the soft gentle skin found on the inside of the thighs...even if it leaves bruises !!

It is not fair to attack the soft spot just beneath the ass cheeks...even if it has the sub doing a subbie jig...

It is not fair to whoop or whip or start any session without a nice sensual warm up

It is not fair to ambush during the making of a meal - during the clean up of a meal - during bed making - laundry or any other house hold chore.

And if all Dominants follows the rules of engagement then they might just get a smart salute and a confident "YES SIR ....... NO SIR........ 3 BAGS FULL SIR !"