Apparently March is question and answer month. I used to know that -- but didn't think about it this year until yesterday when Amy asked me what a quirt was.
So question and answer month it is then!! Should you have any questions feel free to ask in the comment section.
Now Amy -- our quirt looks like this
and by definition is.......
noun: quirt; plural noun: quirts
- 1.a short-handled riding whip with a braided leather lash.
verb: quirt; 3rd person present: quirts; past tense: quirted; past participle: quirted; gerund or present participle: quirting
- 1.hit with a quirt.
and a tawse was used for discipline in Scottish schools -- I have one of these too -- only not sure where it is after my move.....
it looks like this.............
A while back someone (sorry can't remember who) asked what was happening with my lil apartment -- as I seem to be living with Sir Steve 24/7.
The apartment is still mine -- I seem to fluctuate between giving it up and moving everything here (mostly into the basement cause there's no room) and keeping it. It certainly is a drain on finances -- having two separate homes........ but legally right now it is the best answer.... and............ as much as I don't even want to think about it... I have packed up and sold off and moved too many times to be with someone..... this time I don't want to sell off anything else -- and god forbid -- if things go south with Sir Steve -- at least I have a cute lil quirky apartment to fall back on.
I have an anonymous commenter who seems to get quite stressed out over my having pictures of any child -- including the lil one -- on my blog. It has played on my mind. I have cleared any picture of the lil one with Sir Steve before posting it (most of them are back shots or profile shots) and Sir Steve has given me the go ahead.
I understand that on Fetlife one can not post ANY picture of ANY child (even a cartoon picture). And I understand that some folks get quite bent out of shape about the chance of some sick mind getting off on children on a public BDSM/Kink site....
BUT ya know -- this blog isn't as much about BDSM as it is about my life. Honestly I don't separate BDSM from every day life. It just is who we are.
AND before 'anonymous' or anyone else gets all bent out of shape -- NO the lil one has no idea of what goes on behind closed doors.
I don't see a threat from any police force or Big Brother sweeping down on us because I might post a picture once in a blue moon of the lil one ...........
AND finally -- for today -- I have a question for you my dear readers.........
There is a huge ongoing debate/discussion on 'consent violations' on Fetlife. And in the vanilla world we have the #METOO group.
Why now?? What are your thoughts feelings on this issue?? help me out -- I have a very strong opinion on the whole subject and would love some calm feedback on the subject to help me sort out my thoughts........................