We had a good weekend Sir Steve and I.... we did everything we planned to do -- well almost.
We did a quick run to Montreal to have a small birthday celebration with eldest grandson -- we picked up some groceries -- and came home to bed.....hours together in bed...... I even got my picnic lunch of grilled cheese sandwiches and chocolate milk in bed on Sunday.
we had planned -- *I* had counted on -- having some anal play. Sir Steve had told me way back when -- that I had to "practice" so that I would be ready. And I did practice for awhile !!! BUT it got boring doing it myself -- and it never seemed to be on our agenda -- and so I stopped -- gave up???
Sir Steve had suggested - or I suggested -- honestly I don't remember who suggested - that I bring my 'toy' with me this visit ...... so it was on the agenda and still I didn't practice before coming.
Saturday driving home from Montreal -- I was aware I had HUGE butterflies in my stomach -- I was anxious / excited / nervous for this time alone with Sir Steve -- for the anal play. I wanted soooooooooo badly to do this with him.
Sunday morning after some rather hot sex Sir Steve told me to get the toy -- I didn't exactly jump at the idea. Suddenly it was not a fantasy - it was gonna become reality and I was shy and scared ......... Sir Steve said that we didn't have to and I shook my head -- I wanted this -- I really did!!!! so I rolled over and grabbed the toy and gave it to him.
He was gentle and patient -- and more than lovingly understanding -- but it didn't work -- almost worked BUT almost only counts in horseshoes. I was so disappointed and felt I had let Sir Steve down -- or disappointed him -- something......... cause IF I had kept up my practicing it probably would have worked right??!!! and because I got bored and didn't practice it didn't work.
And round and round my brain went -- no matter what Sir Steve said -- no matter how reassuring he was -- no matter how much he snuggled and pampered me -- I felt like I had failed him
I do not handle failure well -- at all !!!
The toy has been put in a drawer by the bed -- he totally understands bout the boring solo thing -- and has said we will practice together -- and it WILL happen one day.......
I'm just sorry it didn't happen this weekend ya know -- we get so little private time together.