Do not settle for anything less . If you do not like waiting , find someone who will give you more attention. You must be happy to have a healthy relationship .
This time things are going very differently........ very differently.
And I like to think I am doing it better this time.
We're talking almost every day. We've seen each other publicly 3 times (does the first time count when his wife told me / pushed me to go and talk to him?? grinning)
We have spent time together the three of us -- testing the waters -- finding common ground -- becoming closer friends. I like to think the 3 of us are building a firm foundation for this -- whatever "this" becomes -- to grow on. It's important to me that there is openness and honesty and lots of communication between all 3 of us.
He and I are building tension for sure between us........ good tension!! weak kneed tension for me!! He and I are testing the waters - - or maybe a better term is negotiating ....... hard limits soft limits everything one is supposed to do before jumping in with both feet.
AND more importantly -- I am re-learning what it feels like to be submissive again (see my even bigger grin?? ) I am learning to trust Him -- that when the time is right we will have what he calls "private time" together.
In the mean time
Glad to hear that you're learning to trust again. Hope everything will work out for you :)
ReplyDeleteAbout my comment yesterday, I wrote it because I was mad at someone for not giving me attention. But then, I guess I'm a hypocrite :(