Moving Heaven and Earth

During the Fairy Tale entries -- I talked about how LLF would say "I promise" and how I would react to the word 'promise'.

When LLF says he's coming to spend the weekend -- I hold my breath -- cause anything could happen - out of his control -- that could cancel our weekend together.

A couple of weeks ago he had just arrived when his lil daughter called and said she wanted to go home.  My heart dropped.  BUT his daughter comes first!  I heard him tell her he couldn't come that night -- but if she still wanted to go home he would come and get her the next morning.  Then he got on the computer and found a favourite aunt who would go and spend the next day with her.  He told her he had made a commitment for Saturday and wanted to keep it.  I couldn't believe what he was doing...... he was trying with every ounce of his being to keep his promise to me!  The aunt went and visited ..... and we got to spend the weekend together.

We have a big weekend planned this weekend.  We have been looking forward to it all week.  On Thursday night he told me the 'mom' had called and said she might not be able to take the daughter as she didn't feel well.  

I sat quietly and took a couple of big breaths....... and realized it wasn't the end of the world -- shit happens -- and there are still many more weekends to come....... 

BUT -- about 10 minutes later he told me he had babysitting covered if 'mom' did back out.  I couldn't believe it.  He had moved heaven and earth to keep his promise.  He will bring the dog (I can't wait to see how Missy handles having a black lab house guest for the weekend) and we will get to do everything we planned!

He is one of the few men I have met who 1) actually makes promises and 2) actually keeps them. 

He is a man with good intentions AND good character.
I am a very lucky lady.

Men Do It too

Who knew?!

Yesterday I read an enlightening post over on Fetlife. 

First I need to explain that in 60+ years I have had experience with exactly 6 cocks.  So needless to say I don't have a whole lot of knowledge or 'know how'.
 
This chap was writing about how sometimes he worries his cock is too small.  He explained that the women he has been with have complimented him on the girth and length.  They said it was a perfect fit. He was surprised.  

What surprised me the most was that he compared this mild form of 'angst' as similar to what women go through comparing themselves to magazines/movie stars etc.  I was surprised. In hind sight I am not sure why I was surprised -- it certainly makes perfect sense that men might have sexual issues / body image issues -- why wouldn't they ?? They're human.  And he explained that most men only have porn films to compare themselves to........ geez that's much worse than looking at pictures of women in magazines or movie stars !!

But for me -- it was a "who knew" moment.

It seems I never stop learning -- which is a very good thing!