People are too complicated to have simple labels.
And yet labels help us identify one another. The above word cloud are labels people have assigned to me...and I have let them.
Some of them I accept - like submissive/bottom, mentor, masochist, poly
Some of them I wear proudly - like Mother Granny Friend Lover
The rest are just labels people have assigned to me.
BUT I am hoping that people will look deeper than the labels - see the woman underneath those labels and realize that I may be those labels - but much much more.