i was reading blogs this morning.. do you know how many smart women there are out there in blog land??? it constantly amazes me.. This morning magdala (of the corn husk fame) wrote about apples and oranges.... i kinda took that post and the post by swan about why she blogs .. and the post from kaya about being a parent.. and it all came together in my head.. sorta like some exotic juice ... a blend of many different flavours...
And whether or not we are all "real" (a great debate that rages on ) or half real.. or all fiction.. does it really matter?? we pick up a little bit of information here.. a smile there.. a tear over there...maybe even a major temper tantrum in another area.. it is all (in my opinion) stimulants for the brain.. the legal kind.. thought provoking .. make me think.. make me feel..
and i have been reading a couple of blogs by newbies.. by submissives looking for a Dominant.. and struggling with their search.... wading through all the apples and oranges.. looking for just the right blend for them.. and it made me remember my own search - many long years ago........ and how i wistfully wanted what so and so had... i longed for what that one had. or that one...
In the beginning (a good place to start) Sir and i both struggled for what fit us! a little bit of this.. a little bit of that... years of blending and mixing .. adding and subtracting.. et voila .. here we are 5 years later with a mix that fits... sometimes it needs a little revamping.. a little dash of this.. a little bit of that.. but still we are where we need to be right now.. and isn't that all that really matters in the end result........
life is a journey (yeah yeah i know i have said that before.. and trust me i will say it again) and the important thing is the journey......... the lessons we learn .. the growth we experience.. the people we meet.....
apples and oranges and kiwis and mangos and bananas.. and every other blend you can think of........ that is what life is about.. what makes it exciting !!!!
(another entry to the fictional journal some time today...... and i do believe it is time to add a couple more pics to the photo journal.... just click on the links in the right hand column)
You are so sweet! I am so glad that you find so many things that help you along your journey. That to me is a truer sense of community I think. Finding bits and pieces along the way even if it is when we are walking through the gallery alone. Thank you!
ReplyDelete(corn husk fame! I take it that that means you told Sir about the corn! I cannot wait to hear about this!)
magdala - trust me i CAN wait to hear about it!!! LOL.. and yeah i am a glutton for punishment.. there is a standing order here that if i read something that i know Sir will enjoy i am supposed to send Him the url... i am a good subbie (if somewhat dumb at times) so yes i sent Him the url for the corn husk story!!
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....thank you so much for the comment on my blog. Your writing here is....wow. I look forward to visiting often.
ReplyDeleteThank you for you.