tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post935038318517691031..comments2023-08-21T03:58:58.417-04:00Comments on The Continued Journey: TTWD morningstarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-16131196371552667542021-04-07T21:11:31.817-04:002021-04-07T21:11:31.817-04:00My apologies for taking so long to get here. I did...My apologies for taking so long to get here. I did read this first thing this morning but had to get running and haven't stopped until now. Um, not that you were waiting with baited breath. Lol<br /><br />I love it when things fall into place, even if there is pain to get there. It's like a huge weight has been lifted off. For me there doesn't always have to be a solution, just williehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-37413473943237969702021-04-07T15:20:16.431-04:002021-04-07T15:20:16.431-04:00oh Windy - you are not alone about stressing over ...oh Windy - you are not alone about stressing over being a misfit ... even after all these years of blogging I still get butterflies if I post something that may go against the grain (or in my opinion may rock somebody's boat :( )<br /><br />I honestly did think I had moved completely past the old traumas... this taught me I still have a way to go... :) and that's alright - I'm in a morningstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-9896264498260017122021-04-07T14:26:05.130-04:002021-04-07T14:26:05.130-04:00MStar,
It's interesting to read you really ref...MStar,<br />It's interesting to read you really reflecting deeply here. You felt you were a fraud for a bit there and that is something I think many of us face sometimes regarding ttwd, dd, D/s, bdsm, M/s, whatever. But I never viewed you as a misfit here. I have often felt like a misfit if I suspect even one person hates what I just posted. lol But, I am learning not to give a shit, too. Windyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06867828862057296642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-86379388321366317552021-04-07T11:31:35.840-04:002021-04-07T11:31:35.840-04:00It is much easier to have a their kink my kink att...It is much easier to have a their kink my kink attitude when you have a healthy relationship with TTWD... ya know?? My realizing how triggered I can still be was HUGE for me! I thought it was gone .... le sighmorningstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-57185819763889728092021-04-07T09:56:13.806-04:002021-04-07T09:56:13.806-04:00Over the years I've read post that frightened ...Over the years I've read post that frightened and worried me. What the person was talking about seemed abusive, extreme, horrifying... you get the idea. But then I think of my experiences if my vanilla friend were to read that I was cuffed to the bed and beaten with a belt and a cane they would think - abusive, extreme, horrifying. So when I read what others write I have a much more - to eachPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-46662882208842690592021-04-07T09:24:54.898-04:002021-04-07T09:24:54.898-04:00This 'revelation' just demonstrated to me ...This 'revelation' just demonstrated to me how skewered my emotions are/were... now it's time for a slight readjustment and move forward again :)morningstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-16455368209944824402021-04-07T09:21:46.763-04:002021-04-07T09:21:46.763-04:00claire - first don't ever apologise here for r...claire - first don't ever apologise here for rambling !! How often do I ramble on?? LOL<br /><br />I was on Fetlife - and very active for many years... but since I took my life back I hardly go on at all now. A lot of what is on there is either not real or definitely NOT what I want out of BDSM...<br /><br />(grinning) no worries about offending me - I'm not shy about voicing my opinionmorningstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-13284300350999076102021-04-07T08:46:20.707-04:002021-04-07T08:46:20.707-04:00Well it's a good thing all this talking and bl...Well it's a good thing all this talking and blogging and questions have helped to clear some of the fog and you can see the way ahead. Looking forward to the next post!Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-5739487891448993402021-04-07T07:56:47.182-04:002021-04-07T07:56:47.182-04:00This may be a long ramble, so I apologise :)
Befo...This may be a long ramble, so I apologise :)<br /><br />Before I came here (blogger), my Master joined Fetlife to see what it was like, and I was allowed to browse around, I never commented, just read loads, and I came away many times thinking "I don't fit" or to be more accurate that how me and my Master lived our lives was wrong, I just found it a very judgemental place, or ratherclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02815215304218971133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-62550686004021407382021-04-07T05:50:04.022-04:002021-04-07T05:50:04.022-04:00Hi Morningstar,
I'm so glad your recent posts...Hi Morningstar,<br /><br />I'm so glad your recent posts, comments and talking to Willie helped you find charity on your relationship. Our experiences do shape how we perceive things 'should' be and our reactions. Yours was definitely not a typical TPE relationship.<br /><br />Looking forward to reading your answer to Ronnie's question.<br /><br />Hugs <br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com