tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post3934794374352017870..comments2023-08-21T03:58:58.417-04:00Comments on The Continued Journey: Consent Violations -- Part 1morningstarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-67631619036872973252018-03-10T10:21:29.053-05:002018-03-10T10:21:29.053-05:00Totally agree with both comments. And I’d like to ...Totally agree with both comments. And I’d like to add that just because YOU have never had a problem with someone doesn’t mean someone else couldn’t have had a problem with that person. And dismissing someone’s word just because YOU have never had that experience yourself is a pretty shitty thing to do. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-6210601279253497002018-03-09T17:33:30.699-05:002018-03-09T17:33:30.699-05:00I agree with the anonymous comment. As a rape sur...I agree with the anonymous comment. As a rape survivor, that freezing thing has happened to me and I wasn't able to say no a second, or third, time. It doesn't make it any less of a violation as my first one should have sufficed. Lucinda Prestonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12148493177205700317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-9254901351933607892018-03-09T09:22:57.934-05:002018-03-09T09:22:57.934-05:00If I say do not use a paddle (or if being me a bel...If I say do not use a paddle (or if being me a belt) and someone pulls out a paddle and uses it on me without further negotiation that is a consent violation. I clearly said I do not consent and you did the opposite. There could be several reasons someone wouldnt safeword at that point- maybe they are in an altered state of consciousness, maybe they are too scared now (this person I trusted Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com