Wednesday, July 19, 2017
This morning I realized that the crazies are always gonna be crazy
They are always gonna stand just outside my world and poke
They are always gonna try and get a reaction out of me.
I can get through all of it because at the end of the day..........
I slide into bed with Sir Steve and he wraps his arms around me and the world shrinks down to the two of us - snuggled in the dark -- talking about the day -- whispering our love -- and the crazies -- all of them -- vanish in a poof of smoke.
I know that no matter how they poke at me during the day -- how they sneak up behind me and blind side me - no matter what they do to try and disturb my peace.. my santuary .. my sanity ... that in the dark of the night my faith is restored because I am really truly loved.
Tuesday, July 18, 2017
And then let us put them all in a freaking big boat and push it out to sea.............
The last few days I seem to have had my fill of crazy people... from the ex father in law screaming his fool head off at me -- to the ex wife lurking about trying to cross the clearly defined boundarives -- the ex mother in law raving like a lunatic and now my ex W still tagging me on FB (always when I think he is gone for good he manages to pop back up in my life!!) ........ (shaking head) Honestly I feel like I am living in an asylum!!
And now I am growing paranoid!
My biggest fear is that Sir Steve's exs are plotting some evil plot to get custody of the lil one. I know it's stupid and illogical -- the mother still is only allowed supervised visitations........... but the rumblings I keep hearing -- like they will keep the lil one for the full summer -- and get full custoday at the fall hearing.........the names they are calling me everything from "slut to home breaker to crazy girlfriend" . I worry somehow I am gonna be used against Sir Steve in the final custody hearing!
AND I am probably just being paranoid...........
Let's start collecting 'em all -- all those crazies -- and find a HUGE boat ok???
Monday, July 17, 2017
We had an episode on Saturday --- one in a long line of "episodes" with the ex wife and her family.
Mostly I have gritted my teeth -- occasionally I have thrown out one line zingers -- like the time she burst onto our deck at 9:30 on a Sunday morning (one of many times that she arrived unannounced and uninvited) and made a comment as she was leaving about enjoying our breakfast and I zinged "we are trying to!"
But mostly I keep my mouth shut and if it really bothers me I will speak to Sir Steve and let him handle it or not.
Saturday we had company for dinner -- 2 other couples. We had finished dinner and were sitting around the campfire (which happens to be at the back of our site) laughing and talking.
Suddenly out of nowhere the ex wife arrives with lil one in tow with soap and a towel and announces that the lil one wants a bath and refuses a shower so please give her a bath. I swung around and zinged "REALLY??!!"
Sir Steve got up and took the lil one into the trailer -- SHE then decided to walk into our group to pat the dog and make a fuss. Our guests were floored (it isn't just me!) and remarked how rude that was.
Not 2 minutes after she left her father showed up behind my chair yelling at me........ YELLING! Anyone who knows me knows I do NOT handle yelling in any form. I swung around in my chair and told him firmly "I will not discuss this with you now" and turned my back to him.
My whole body was shaking -- I thought I was going to be sick - and I was heading for a full blown panic attack.
Our guests left early as the mood of the evening had been ruined.
I went into the trailer as rigid as a stone statue. I washed up the dinner dishes. I got undressed. I climbed into bed and the melt down hit......... full blown melt down! I took my pills -- I cried -- and cried some more -- Sir Steve lay beside me with his arm wrapped tightly around me -- it didn't help.
Finally I was able to voice the emotions -- I was scared ...... I didn't feel safe -- I was done -- and I was going home in the morning.
It was a bad night for both Sir Steve and I. Every lil sound had me jumping awake.
In the morning Sir Steve spoke to the ex wife -- laid the law down so to speak.
The final result is neither she nor her family is welcome to come waltzing on to our site uninvited. Sir Steve does not want to hear from anyone that I am the 'crazy girlfriend' or the 'slut' or the 'home wrecker'. AND the mother is going to take the lil one one week on one week off for the rest of the summer (which gives me a HUGE break)
I am hoping the boundaries set will take -- I am hoping that the rest of my summer will be peaceful and the sense of this being a safe secure sanctuary will return. But then they don't have a lot of respect for anyone ....... so I truthfully have my doubts.
I do have faith in Sir Steve though -- He has gone to work and I am sitting in the trailer writing this.......jumping a little bit every time I hear someone walking past -- but hoping against hope that this too shall pass.
Saturday, July 15, 2017
Life is indeed full of surprises!
Sir Steve followed me for almost 10 years through this blog -- kept an eye on me so to speak - never commented -- never whispered in my ear... nothing... no clue.
He still reads here daily and rarely if ever says anything to me -- and most definitely never comments.
But he posted a comment on Stop Just Stop (click the link to read) -- he posted all the words he whispers in my ear when the day is over and we are lying in bed snuggled up together... maybe he's hoping if I see it in print I will believe him??
I don't know -- I just know it made me tear up (in a good way).... and it made me think I really have got the best man ever!
Life is good when your Sir whispers in writing the words in his heart - for all the world to see .......
Friday, July 14, 2017
Despite all the negatives going on around us -- the one thing that keeps getting better and better is our sex life.
Some nights I lie there afterwards and think I am the luckiest woman alive. This man is truly one in a million. Our sexual desires are so much in sync. Never before have I had a partner who has wanted to.......... as much as I do. Never before have I had a man who knows exactly how to make me cum. Never before have I had a man who treats me like (as the expression goes) "a princess by day and a slut by night" AND ohhhh my it is sooo good!
Sexually we keep improving (which yeah I know is normal!) and when I think there is nothing that can make it better -- there is ! And it boggles my mind! I sleep purring like a contented cat ..... with a Cheshire smile on my face.