tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post2493827482718118796..comments2023-08-21T03:58:58.417-04:00Comments on The Continued Journey: Referencesmorningstarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01500052225655763353noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-58057214697019238042013-05-11T14:48:51.047-04:002013-05-11T14:48:51.047-04:00It's so interesting that we're always toss...It's so interesting that we're always tossing around "discretion" when it comes to getting to know other kinksters. <br /><br />If it were me trying to figure out who had reputations that had been locked in the proverbial closets, instead of asking directly, i'd ask questions like "would you invite X over to a small gathering at your home?" Seems like people are a Reaperscreaturehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02315418458207366264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-23392832655988544002013-05-11T00:04:34.284-04:002013-05-11T00:04:34.284-04:00I may be mistaken but as I see no difference betwe...I may be mistaken but as I see no difference between a bottom and a sub, you might forge a new word: subslave. I know, that's hardly a gem.<br /><br />Now about your post: the Lurker is right,when you meet someone you observe and listen and deduce what he/she's like. And that takes a bloody long time. You marry someone and it may take months or even years before you can finally judge if Ordalienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12499392.post-66897161467610706602013-05-10T12:25:16.210-04:002013-05-10T12:25:16.210-04:00Hi Again, Morningstar,
This post made me wonder ab...Hi Again, Morningstar,<br />This post made me wonder about some other things. Should people ask for references when starting any relationship, considering living together or getting married? Is dating like that grace period where everyone is on their best behavior? What if marriage licences had probationary periods? Just some of the weird thoughts racing around in my head!<br /><br /><br />(PS A. Lurkernoreply@blogger.com