Saturday, March 12, 2016

I'm ok - You're ok!







(grinning) the title is from a very old course from very long ago about "Reality Therapy".


For some of you who know me - who follow my ramblings (loosely called writings) you have watched me grow and change and become a stronger woman over these last 8 months.

I think I need to share something with all of you who care about me - and worry about me.
 
I'm Ok!

And when HE writes things on Fetlife - or Facebook - or anywhere else for that matter - I can't see it. I have him blocked and unfriended and deleted.

I had hoped for "friends" forever - especially since we started out as friends first. BUT that has become impossible. So I made the decision to remove him as much as possible from my life.

I have a big favour to ask of all of you who care about me - please don't tell me when / if he has tried to fire another shot over my bow......I know you are worried about me - but I just don't need to know.

I am OK!

thank you all for your love and concern - but from now on - let's just see me as a new woman - exploring a wonderful life and having fun ok??


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Oh and I understand that he has followed one of my commenters back to her blog and left a very nasty rude comment.  I keep feeling like I should apologize for his bad behaviour and choices - but honestly it's not my job anymore.

IF he continues to be rude on your blogs - I will totally understand if you don't comment here anymore.  

We all have to do what we have to do to protect ourselves and keep negative feelings/people out of our lives !

3 comments:

an English Rose said...

Hi Star, I am glad you are ok, really glad :). Never apologise for him, no need
love Jan,xx

Eric51 Amy49 said...

Hi Star, My first time here so I don't know your story but sounds like you are rocking the right choice for you. Keep it up girl!! My new favorite song is "Sit Still, Look Pretty" by Daya. You might get a kick out of it. You be the queen, no need for a king. Best of luck to you. Amy

Michele d said...

Good on you, morningstar. His desperate behavior is NOT your concern and any attention paid to it just feeds his ego.