Nope I honestly don't get it.. there are some pretty weird kinks out there. And after 20+ years in the kink community I honestly thought I had seen it all.
There are the "littles"
There is some discussion in Montreal - around play parties and the "littles" coming to them and playing. Turns out some of the straight (for lack of a better term) players are complaining. They say it feels like they are playing in front of children. I was thinking these grown littles must be very good actors to make others feel like they are violating the "no children" rule. I mean they are consenting adults.
What I have a problem with - is a little more complicated (I think) I wonder about the "daddies" and "mommies" that feel the need to play with children. I have great trouble wrapping my head around getting turned on by changing diapers or cuddling a 4 year old or discipling a 4 year old (or whatever age the little is playing at) Could be because I spent most of my career rescuing children from abusive homes - shrug - I am not sure. BUT in all fairness I wouldn't NOT play if some littles were there,
There are the "furries"
Now they are a whole 'nother story. These "furries" were wondering around the Buskers festival on the weekend. I have no idea if they are actual furries - or just mascots. BUT there are folks who dress up as animals and do their thing. What I learned about them I learned from CSI ( yes yes the television show!!) So I am definitely no expert on them. But I have to admit "I don't get it".
And now there is "worming"
Wanna know more about worming??? Here's a link - read it if you dare. I believe I first read about this on Hermine's Heart - but I couldn't find it when I went back looking (I really should jot down urls when I am gonna quote) There is something just plain wrong with this..... never mind the possibility of passing along infections but - REALLY - licking eyeballs???!!! and yeah I know it is in Japan not North America - but seriously how long do you think it is gonna take to get here??? I have visions (excuse the pun) of the next big workshop here in the Great White North being on "worming" ..........
What is becoming of my BDSM that I love so much??!!! (a bit tongue in cheek - so don't jump all over me) I just don't get it!