Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Not Politically correct
Ya know how it seems to be so politically correct for us in the BDSM community to sprout off "Your kink is not my kink BUT your kink is ok" and how we are all supposed to respect and support someone's kink??
Well I have come to a place in my life where I am tired of being politically correct. Cause ya know what - maybe your kink is ok - but maybe your behaviour is not. Maybe it is time to stand up and say "Stop" to those that push the limits of socially aceptable behaviours. Maybe it is time to remind these folks it is time to separate your kink from the real world.
Honestly I don't want to see a grown woman prancing around in a short skirt - hair in pigtails with a pacifer in her mouth - a teddy under her arm - and maybe even a diaper on - shopping for groceries with her "daddy". I don't want to see folks in restaurants with chain collars on and leashes calling their Master or Mistress by their title - even kissing their shoes........
I DO care about how I am perceived in public - in vanilla life. And you could be giving us all a bad name - making us all look more like perverts than the vanilla world already sees us.
And the more open and accepting we become - the more we are asking for - inviting in - people we really don't know - under the ever encompassing umbrella of BDSM...we are opening ourselves up to inviting in the "big bad wolf" and that is so not a good thing.
I say it is way past time to take a stand ...........