A. How did you get started on the BDSM lifestyle? Was your ex-husband involved too?
B. How did Warren come into your life?
Wow - those questions are ancient history for sure (grinning)
A) I read the Story of O when I was 19 and wished that the fiction I read could be real.
Fast forward a few years - I started reading Adult Message Boards (boy does that date me) and discovered BDSM in real life!!
From there it was a short hop skip and jump to meeting people in real life at munches / get togethers. I tried to get my hubbie interested - but truthfully I believe he was more submissive than I was....... so it didn't work. He figured it was a "hobby" of mine - weird hobby - but still a hobby... and didn't object to me meeting people - even playing - as long as I came home to him.
Our marriage was on the rocks long before this venturing out into real life happened. So again - it was just a short hop skip and a jump to my separating from him and finally divorcing him. (Anyone who reads here knows he and I are now good friends and celebrate all the high holidays and birthdays together)
Now as for W coming into my life. .......... I first met him and his then partner at a munch. I kept bumping into him at munches and the occasional play party. He made me laugh.. and most of the time I never took him too seriously.
Then at one munch - he approached me about an off the cuff comment I had made about doing self bondage. He offered to be my "safe call " . I thought he was being silly and that was the beginning of my education / entry into bondage.
We met usually on a Friday afternoon here at the condo for lessons in bondage...... W had never "hit a woman" ...... we both evolved - I learned about bondage and W learned to take pleasure in "hitting a woman"
Things evolve and change............ and here we are today........ slowly blending our lives .. the BDSM and the vanilla ... and making our own brand of BDSM.