favourite things.........

After yesterday's emotional .. write from the gut..... blog.. i thought today i would go back to answering those questions that you left for me when i went through my dry spell.......... and in reviewing them - trying to decide which one i would answer... this one popped up........

What are the top 5-10 things you would recommend trying (specifically)?

and i thought 'my god!!! how can i answer that??? especially after yesterday's blog about picking your own kink?' i mean .......how can i???

Then i thought ....... well i could write a list of my favourite things (singing in Julie Andrews mode) BUT i am not recommending anything...... ok?? as long as we have that one straight........ here goes....... (and they are in no specific order...... )

Bondage ...... there is absolutely nothing ........ nothing ....... like being tied up and having no choice what is done to you....... Sir used to tie me so that my feet were over my head (kind of) and were attached to the head board of the bed...... very exposed.. no where to go...... ass fully exposed...... oh my god .. what fun !!! Of course there is the body harness and trying to beat my own record of 8 hours in it.......... and the feel of the ropes as they are removed from my body...... the crotch rope being ripped out .. feeling like it is riping the very skin from my private pink bits........

Pussy Torture...... i love it.. god i love it !!!! whether it is clothes pegs attached.. or bull dog clamps.. or clover clamps..... or listermint strips inserted....and i shy away from discussing my love for.. need for .. desire for.. rough sex .. rape like ... because i am fully aware of how sensitive a subject it is for many ...... but i love no warning.... i love to be taken roughly and urgently... and violently..

Needle Play ..... i have discussed this before........ how Friday nights are often needle night..... and how relaxing i find it..... as each needle is inserted i feel the stress leaving my body.... i don't much like breast torture...... but i have tolerated needles inserted in my breasts (until i read somewhere that breast tissue shouldn't be damaged because it might alter cell structure - and since then i am a little more jumpy and tense when it comes to needles in my breast)

Naked ........ i know this bit may sound weird...... but i am the one who couldn't be naked in my own house - alone! Sir trained me to be naked at home.. i still quiver when He orders me to strip at a private or public play party .... but i am beginning to think deep down inside i do enjoy it........ and have (on some of my more adventuresome days) even flashed Sir in public places for photo opportunities... been stripped in the nature park near the condo and tied to a tree.. the thrill of discovery !!!

Pain..... i discovered a long long time ago - in another life time almost - that i loved pain...... i dreamed of ways of inflicting pain on myself...... to the point that in my early 20's i was a "cutter" ........ because it felt good....... and might explain my love of knife play now.......

Knife Play...... the very first time that Sir brought the first knife into the house i drooled...... i honestly did !!! It made me hot and horny and dripping wet to think about the feel of the cold steel against my skin.... to feel it slice through my skin....... (it is - in my opinion - that Sir finds it just a little bit stressful cutting me....... as it is a new concept to Him - the original bondage only guy)

Spanking toys....i was all set to write about my 2 favourite toys.... the crop and the paddle........ when i realized i also like the circus whip.. and the vegan whip.... and a half dozen (at least) other spanking toys........ i was thinking the crop may be my favourite because when Sir uses it not too heavy and not too light ..... (sounds like Goldilocks doesn't it?? ) i can have an orgasm just from the pain.......
BUT then i like the heavy paddle (that looks an awful lot like a cricket paddle i think) and it will send me into sub space faster than any other toy..... and leaves hard white circles on my ass for at least 24 hours afterwards.........

Those are a few of my favourite things............. la la la