Sunday, February 10, 2008

Role Playing / Fetishes

i have had role playing and fantasies on my mind for the last few weeks..... for a number of reasons...
- i stumbled on a blog that at times is very difficult to sort out the fiction from the reality (which was one reason i started a completely separate blog for fictional stories.)
- the ongoing search for a slave has brought out the fantasies in my own head..as well as the people who believe this life is one big role play - "today i will be the bad bad lil boy and YOU will beat me ass..... Mommy".
- and i have been remembering all the stories i have heard from folks about how they had abduction fantasies, prisoner/guard fantasies, doctor/patient fantasies.
Once ........ just once .. i had this fantasy.. role play if you will........ Sir and i had seen the movie Secretary for the second time and i wanted so badly to try the spreader bar behind my neck fastened to my wrists while i went about serving Sir. After that day i decided it was wise to leave my fantasies where they belonged - in my head !!!

BUT still people enter into role playing on a regular basis...medical fetishes ........


And yes some people really get into it....... but me personally?? well if Sir came into a room all decked out in Doctor's gear - i know i would get a case of the giggles sooooooooo bad that the whole scene would be ruined !!!!

Naughty school girl is another example of a popular fetish/role playing.........



Honestly folks - i haven't worn a little kilt and white blouse with knee socks in eons........... and to try and put me back in one.. with my grey streaked hair and old joints would just have me saying "this is just wrong.. wrong wrong wrong" (never mind the fact that my professional side would have some major problems !!)

Then there is the Amazon type woman with male slaves............


i have read the Beauty series .. and loved them.... but somehow rich women holding court over whining sniveling males just doesn't turn my crank - if you know what i mean.......... though it is a fantasy a lot of males do have..........oh hell it is a wonderful fantasy that a lot of women have as well.......... and yes i include myself in that group........ i do daydream about being held captive against my will.. made to do unspeakable deeds at the hands of some man holding a whip....... and in reality this is probably the easiest role play to bring to reality........ but not 24/7 ... too much of real life surrounds us.

There is the prisoner / guard role playing


Now i do have a "thing" for being put in a cage ....... at a public venue....... but mostly because then i feel safe..... and (psssst this one even Sir doesn't know) i don't have to follow Him around being over stimulated by everything going on around me... and wobbling on high heels (no neither Sir nor i have a shoe fetish!!) that threaten the sanctity of my old joints !!! BUT on the other hand.. the last time i was put in a cage.. some dummy Dom came up behind me and zapped my ass (without permission i might add) with an electric fly swatter that left marks for days....... that was NOT fun !!!!

BUT to actually be put in a cage at home???? It honestly doesn't do a thing for me.. boring comes to mind........ and for heaven's sakes don't imagine Sir coming down in a guard uniform to "interrogate" me........ pulease !!!!

Then there are shoe fetishes.........



And religious fetishes.........



and animal fetishes - such as pony play (which i could never take part in.. but i do admire those that do !!! there is a kind of beauty to watching ponies pulling rigs holding their Dominants)


then there are latex fetishes......


and plain and simple leather fetishes......



When i take a good long hard look at myself.. at Sir.. i don't think we actually have any fetishes per say........ nor do we enter into role playing......... i guess because this isn't a game to us........ and we don't need any games or role playing to spice up our life......... this is our life.. with the serving.. with the paddles and canes and floggers ........ with my ass in the air....... with my ass naked and accessible at all times...... it is just LIFE.

3 comments:

Buffalo said...

Interesting post. I am pretty sure that I have never role-played; 'cept as a kid playing pretend and there were no sexual elements to that.

Blazngfyre said...

My ex wanted to do the role playing thing, and I gave it an honest effort, I really did, but ... it just did nothing for me.
We were at our local "Toy" store, and he caught a glimpse of all the medical instruments in a case, and he very much wanted to experiment with them.
Sorry, unless you have working knowledge of HOW those instruments work, you're not getting anywhere near MY girly parts with them! lol

Give me a good 'ol paddle any day of the week and i'm a happy girl.

Chantal said...

Very interesting. The medical fetish makes me uncomfortable. I came across a blog by a couple who are into that. They had posted a picture of the sub's outer labia stapled together. The Dom's hand was in the shot and he had dirty fingernails. I'm supportive of adults doing what they want, but please, do it right. Wash your hands first.